Gay After Marriage: A Bisexual Woman Figures Out How To Make It Work For Her by Alexandra Caldwell

GAY AFTER MARRIAGE: A bisexual woman figures out how to make it work…for her by Alexandra Caldwell What do you do when you discover you’re gay after you’re already married? I suppose a lot of spouses trip over themselves as they run to find a lawyer. I suppose others cry or yell or throw things. …

POLY-BAITING: WHY WE NEED A MORE INCLUSIVE LGBT MOVEMENT by Vivienne Chen

POLY-BAITING: WHY WE NEED A MORE INCLUSIVE LGBT MOVEMENT by Vivienne Chen http://www.huffingtonpost.com/vivienne-chen/gay-marriage-polyamory_b_1367260.htm\ Anti-LGBTQ campaigners have often used the issue of polyamory — or rather, a twisted media presentation of “polygamy,” which is distinct from ethical nonmonogamy and polyamory — as a slippery-slope argument against LGBTQ equality, particularly when it comes to marriage. The worse …

TWO WOMEN & A MAN by Janet Kira Lessin

ENJOY A LIVE-IN MENAGE A TROIS: Web Radio & Article by Janet Kira Lessin, Chief, World Polyamory Association Click arrow and listen: Janet, Janey (two women) and Sasha (a dude) make living together fun, growthful and very sexy. Here’s tips on the communication, growth facilitation and tantric skills that make threesomes bliss. When I was …

Beyond Bodies: Lessons from a Polyamory Conference by Janet Kira Lessin

Beyond Bodies by Janet Kira Lessin, Chief Focalizer, World Polyamory Association Nothing like a good old-fashioned polyamory conference to learn how to stretch your wings and move beyond your boundaries. While most times I like to believe I’m rather progressive, open-minded and think outside of the box, polyamory conferences tend to tax my limits, open my …

New York Times Magazine on nonmonogamy for stronger marriage

July 1, 2011 New York Times Magazine on nonmonogamy for stronger marriage New York Times Sunday Magazine My last post was about an article in one of New York City’s alt weekly papers on how queer and poly partnerships can set a good example for straight marriage. Tomorrow morning, a much bigger fish will land …

POLYS OF THE WORLD UNITE by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.

Polys of the world unite; You’ve nothing to loose but limitations, nothing to shed but isolation; Everything to gain in love, intimacy, intensity and growth. Terminate monotonous monogamy; arrest atrocious age-ism; Stop sexist stifling, renounce pernicious racism; Celebrate relationship choice and give more loving a voice. The love you take is equal to the love …

POLYAMORY: PATH TO ETERNAL MARRIAGE by Janet Kira Lessin

Does monogamy lead to divorce? Monogamy is conditional love full of requirements and restraints, pulling in reigns, restricting freedom, spontaneity and choice. But monogamy’s opposite, running wild, sewing oats, following every whim, seems to avoid intimacy. Intimacy takes time, connection and intensive sharing to be truly known, loved and accepted and give your lovers enough …