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The World Polyamory Association is a synergistic network of polyamorists, people who love more than one in intimate relationships.  These cultural creatives consciously collaborate to heal the planet by creating a a new paradigm of peace and love.  We envision a world where personal choice is honored, freedom of expression's celebrated, individuality's embraced and love's revered.  In polyamory, love is celebrated through varied relationship structures, diversity of its people, sexual orientation and avenues of expression.  Polyamory (loving many) is a high art form and a profound spiritual path which encourages honesty, authentic relating, conscious connections, kind communication and unconditional love. Relating polyamorously frees all of us, awakens the world and propels the planet towards peace.  

The World Polyamory Association supports freedom lovers who desire truth and seek avenues to be true to themselves.  Through conferences, seminars, support groups, counseling, co-creating and cooperative collaboration we pioneers of relationship choice pave the way for participants everywhere to experience the fulfillment of desires and deeply held wishes. We discard cultural conditioning, societal pressure, religious programming and attitudes that no longer serve us.  We meet our needs, have what we want and free ourselves from guilt and shame.  Join us and help create new paradigms where we have it all while caring for those we love and hold space for their healing and growth.   

DNA studies have revealed that humans are pair-bonded but not sexually monogamous.  The monogamy myth has created incredible wounds on the human psyche which have harmed us far too long.  Polyamory is a viable option for conscious relating that eliminates lying and cheating.  Cheating undermines loving relationships, widens the gender gap and propagates the war of the sexes.  Polyamory promotes balance and partnership society.  It eliminates patriarchy, domination and hierarchy, the very causes of war.  

Poly amory , loving more than one person at the same time, is always a good choice.  No problem, love many.  

But Poly sexuality, more than one lover?  Polyamory with polysexuality-one of several relationship options-works well for some people some of the time.  But so, too, do any of the other relationship options--monogamy, singlehood, even celibacy works for other people some of the time.

Choose.  The World Polyamory Association advocates CHOICE.  Be the chooser, decider, author of this chapter of your life.  WPA wants you to make discerning choices that serve you.  Make choices that facilitate your personal growth and evolution and at the same time honor and respect the people you commit to love.

You have relationship options - monogamy, celibacy, open marriage, pair-bonded inclusive relating, triads (man-woman-man, woman-man-woman, man-man-man, woman-woman-woman) polyfidelity, loving networks, group marriage, multi-generational line marriage, and more. You have heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual alternatives within each.  You have many spiritual practices and value systems to chose--to mix and match with your relationship options, styles and sexual orientation.  What is most important is that you are the chooser and that you come from choice.  

Society, sick of infidelity, longs for honesty and openness.  When will we at last free to be who we really are instead of hiding our thoughts, wants, desires and longings from everyone, including our mates?

No longer fooled by domination programming, we free ourselves from "sin" and cultural inhibitions that served the age of patriarchy.  Free, we realize we've outgrown  ancient, restrictive ideas that no longer serve our new, centered, balanced male to female, yinyang, partnership society.   As we make love not war with renewed enthusiasm, we embrace a more civilized civilization that honors the uniqueness and special qualities of one and all and recognize sexual freedom as a healthy expressions of our true nature. Bonobo "chimps," our biologically closest cousins, show us the eroticism of our natural, animal natures.

We move into an era of new awareness and freedom while we simultaneously experience the pressure of increasing potential restrictions imposed upon us by those who feel threatened by our ability to be free.  Unchallenged, they would rob us of our choice to be who we truly are.

In 1816 Thomas Jefferson wrote the following:

     "I never told my own religion nor scrutinized that of another.  I never attempted to make a convert, nor wished to change another's creed.  I am satisfied that yours must be an excellent religion to have produced a life of such exemplary virtue and correctness.  For it is in our lives, and not from our words, that our religion must be judged."

Stand tall and firm, proud to be who you are.  You are wise enough to decide for yourself what suits you in each moment as you journey through life.   

Janet & Sasha began their lives together when they met at a poly conference in 1997.  A few months later they wed at a tantra conference.  That may seem unusal for most, but that kinda summarizes who they are. 

    Once united they dedicated their lives to helping others heal. One of the greatest wounds for our society and world is around human sexuality and sexual identity. Polyamory is a major avenue for that healing.

     The Lessins support relationship choice.  They advocate freedom for all to be who they really are.  As counselors they've worked privately with thousands of individuals and couples helping them heal their issues; wounds from cultural conditioning, childhood neglect and abuse, societal shame and blame.  As their clients explore themselves, they find their centers and learn their options so that they fully engage their partners with integrity and honesty and create conscious relationships.  

Janet and Sasha's seminars and conferences bring together experts in relationships, consciousness evolutions, tantra, human sexuality, changing social norms and pioneers of the heart, seekers of light, love and truth.  In the conscious communities their seminars and conferences create--for a few hours, few days or a week, participants connect with others, open their hearts and create deep and lasting relationships.  They learn skills necessary to communicate clearly. They expand, grow and develop self confidence and awareness to manifest their hearts desires and get what they truly want.

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